Second Thoughts On Breast Envy

My young teenage years always had me flipping through fashion magazines and seeing this beautiful models with these gorgeous bodies. I always felt inadequate and prayed for that natural cleavage that accompanied an ample bosom.

So many halter tops and low cut dresses that were left hanging and fabric loose because I never quite acquired the double D’s that I so longed for.

Yes I could’ve “stuffed” my bras and made it work somehow temporarily but after the stuffing comes out you’re left with the same flat as a board chest that had no appeal for anyone much less the young males that you crave attention from when you are becoming a woman and need to feel “wanted.”

Well all through my 20’s and 30’s I remained effected by images of women who had cups spilling over and seemed to have the world by the balls as a result.

By the time I reached 40 I thought to myself, “Before I die I am going to have the breasts I was destined to grow but was robbed!”

I made an appointment with a plastic surgeon and soon I was scheduling my date with DD destiny!

Whoa, nothing prepares you for the aftermath and the pain that is your skin having to stretch across what seemed to feel like 2 over inflated beach balls. Okay I’m exaggerating but at the time they felt HUGE!!

A year or so goes by and I am loving life. No more staring into the void that were my size A+ breasts oh no sir!! I had a set of DD’s that were perfect! Cleavage was mine at last and shopping for it was heaven. Every top, dress, blouse, jacket, and sweater had to be reevaluated because of the altered state of my breasts.
Hmmm it was tougher than I had expected to be honest. I had to make sure I didn’t look slutty or cheap so each time I went to the dressing room it was a mental debate. I hadn’t thought about the fact this may be a problem since after you get bigger boobs you can’t interchange them with your mood. They are with you 24/7!

In addition no one explained the heaviness of having these suckers on your chest day in and day out. My back has taken a beating and so has my sleep patterns.

As the years have come and gone and I’m now in my 50’s I have decided enough is enough with these things and I want them out! Now I walk don the street coveting the ease of the women with small breasts who don’t have to worry about what they wear or how they can’t play tennis, or golf because their boobs get in the way.

I’m so tired of having these weights on my chest and having to consider them every waking moment due to how discomforting they are and now what a nuisance they honestly have become.

Moral of this story, ladies please consider and then reconsider having breast augmentation surgery. Since having been on both sides of this issue I can say from the bottom of my boob weary heart I wished I had stayed exactly the way I was as a teen that didn’t know how perfect she really was. Now all I can think of is getting into that size small t-shirt and maybe not having to wear a bra at all!!

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Okay I can hear you shouting through your computer at me already but listen up ladies – the jumpsuit is back and better than EVER!! I’m so tired of having to always choose between dress pants and blouse or dress for a date night or party event.
Oh but back up the truck!! NOW it’s perfectly fine to select a classy jumpsuit that is sexy enough for even those cocktail parties you KNOW you are going to go to this holiday season.
This slinky black halter version is so comfy that you will want to wear yours to bed :)

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I normally despise self tanning and choose to cover up all my pale skin as the summer months crawl passed me but this summer I headed out to the beach and didn’t want to blind anybody with the whiteness of my legs. After doing my due diligence and trial and error (mostly error) through various products and methods in order to acquire that “natural glowing bronze” color I finally found the perfect one.St. Tropez Self Tan Bronzing Mousse

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How many of you are a year older but don’t want to look it?? My hand is high and waving on this one for sure LOL! One product line I have fallen in love with that truly battles the aging process (as much as a topical product can) is the StriVectin line of tightening products. Believe me I have tried hundreds of dollars worth of creams, serums, peels, and brighteners. This has been a mostly fruitless adventure with frustrations deep in every jar and tube.

I finally discovered this line a few months ago and it honestly is the only one that has shown me any positive results and actually does what it says it does. My skin feels smoother, less tired, more plumper around the eyes and simply in general just makes me look the best I can at MY age. Isn’t that REALLY what we want the most? Just to look great at the age we are and not to look 20 again. Come on girls you know that’s not possible.

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Ever have a bad hair day ladies? Well, fear no more those days now that you can have this beautiful hat to wear that goes with absolutely everything in your closet. Love the versatility and how cute it makes me look as I stroll in my new jeans and sweater or my new sporty jacket and capris.

All types of women can look terrific in this hat and I am a skeptic when it comes to putting anything on my head and stepping out my front door.

This is a classic style and the wool is soft and the construction is sturdy and built to last season after season.
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Traveling can be so tedious and frustrating but add to THAT a bulky piece of luggage that always has one non-working wheel or an extending handle that always seems to NOT want to extend and you have a nightmare in full technicolor!! Well, one aspect of traveling has now been solved and you can carry it on as well. It’s this perfect for wherever you go Samsonite Aspire Sport Spinner bag – LOVE IT!!! The price is so reasonable and you definitely get MORE than you pay for in piece of mind.

This time of year I always tend to go on weekend excursions to visit this friend or that family member and this bag just became my new best accessory. The extension handle is sturdy and smooth to operate, and I appreciated the well-placed convenience handles on sides and bottom when lifting up and down. Just took it on a major airline commercial flight and it fit perfectly overhead. Conforms to carry-on standards but tough enough to withstand baggage handlers and luggage conveyor belts if you decide to check it.
The red color is great for being able to spot it amongst the sea of black luggage too. Safe and happy traveling to you and cheers to a great choice in this bag – you will love it too!


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Every now and then a woman has to seek out the very classic of accessories and that is this gorgeous Bulova Bracelet Watch. Timeless and so elegant this piece will match your entire wardrobe and lets everyone know what great taste you have without being garish or pretentious.

The white mother of pearl face shimmers and changes color as you swivel the bracelet on your wrist.
A watch is something I have always looked at as a take it or leave it accessory but as I have matured and realized how much these add to my collection I am hooked!!

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